We’ve taken a break from reunion blogging… sometimes life just gets too busy! But, we have so many classmates to feature, that it’s time we get back online.
As we began putting together this reunion committee, one of our first volunteers was Joseph Deruvo. Though he insists that he doesn’t recall ever being called Joe, we all know that Joseph was “Joe” in high school. He was the funny, always smiling, incredibly friendly guy. Didn’t everyone know Joe? Maybe it was just his photography for the yearbook that made it seem like he was everywhere… talking to everyone!
Yep, it seems like everyone remembers that smiling face so boldly displayed on our reunion invitation inviting us to cocktails, hor d’oeurves, music & dancing! But did you really know Joe? Well, it turns out that most of us didn’t know the extra learning challenges Joe faced in high school. Well… we’ll let Joseph tell his story…
My wife and I returned to Greenwich from Boston with our six month old son. We were using one of my Parents old cars during that time. She opened up the trunk and saw a length of 2×4 laying there; scratched into it was a lengthy order from McDonalds (from when I was in high school!). I had to laugh when I thought back on how the waitstaff would look at us when we would walk into a restaurant with a hunk of wood and start reading off our order. You see, that is how we would do things in the Greenwich High school Theater Department, and that is the group I most considered myself to be a part of. While most people in high school are concerned about grade point averages and SAT scores, with their parents channeling them into extra curricular activities that might look good on college applications, my parents were just happy that I felt comfortable enough to be part of a group.
You see I am, and always had been, severely Dyslexic – with at least one foot firmly planted in the Autism spectrum.
So the whole idea of socialization had been a rather foreign idea to me. Even to this day I notice how differently I process and experience things around me. I believe that I have virtually no emotional memory, no real memory of my childhood or school years, even my children’s births seem as if they belong to someone else.
So you can imagine being asked to reflect on my high school experience is really no easy feat for me.
It was really only through the camera that I began to make the connections with people that others take for granted… All of you were so willing to open yourselves up to me. Sure, you might have just wanted your picture in the yearbook. But, without knowing it, you were throwing me a lifeline…
I do believe it is a Loving and Merciful God.
I have spent my life doing those things that I have been so perfectly made for.
Who knew all this about our wonderful Joe?

Joseph married his beautiful wife, Lini Ecker, almost 25 years ago. They have two adult children in college. Together, Lini and Joseph are DeRuvo Photography. As professional photographers, they capture images in two different ways – Lini works in color and rectangular format, while Joseph works in black and white and square format. Their incredible work can be seen on their website www.DeRuvoPhotography.com

In addition to photograping weddings and events and creating portraits, Joseph teaches photography and has done some industrial design and prototyping work. Joseph and Lini are volunteering their services in three incredible ways for our reunion. First, they are compiling a “memory show” full of photos from high school and beyond. The show will be projected during the reunion and play in constant rotation for all to enjoy. Then, Joseph and Lini will be photographing throughout the event. They will both be shooting in their own chosen formats and capturing all the reconnections and happenings of this once in a lifetime event. Finally, they will be transferring these photos to a digital memory book. Classmates will be able to purchase a copy of the memory book on CD at the cost to produce it. All we can say is…. WOW! Joseph, you and your lovely wife are awesome for volunteering to do so, so much for us. Thank you!
Joe has a message for all of his classmates:
I Thank God for each and every one of you. And, I could not thank you all enough… I do believe if it were not for all of you being who you were, I would have never been able to be who I am.
And every day I wake, I am thanking God for this perfect life that I have been entrusted with.
Thank You All!